Every wife's greatest fear

I just got word tonight that the husband of a friend of mine died in a drilling accident Saturday near my childhood home.

I heard about the accident, but didn't know it was her husband. I had only met him a few times, but she is one of my party buddies. That's her up on stage with me. She's the one in the white t-shirt with the blue button down over it.

My heart is broken for her. Selfishly, I think about myself and how much of me would die along with my husband.